I’m sure many of you are wondering why I’m doing what I’m doing. I’m educated, intellectual, and absolutely passionate about sex, erotica, role play, domination, and human connection.
Where I Started Role Playing
Years ago when I first went through a traumatic divorce, I started exploring my sexuality for the first time. I ended up on Second Life – masturbating frantically over chat and occasional voice trysts with men all over the world. I was a writer by trade and spent my day writing boring business bullshit, but at night I used my words to stoke men to new heights. The power of control I received from that left an imprint. I actually considered becoming a phone sex operator then, but the fear of submitting my driver’s license kept me from pursuing it seriously.
The Birth of the Domme
About two years ago, I started exploring the dominant side of myself – long repressed by society’s strictures telling me what a feminine woman should be. The Goddess inside of me emerged in stages. She started rebelling at home and very quickly longed for the affirmation that only pro Dommes truly know – having a man submit his very treasure to worship at your altar.
I felt the awakening grow stronger the first time I flogged a man black and blue. He paid me for the experience – booked a hotel room for our session and one for my husband to be in next door so that he could make sure I was safe. In addition to the $750 session fee, he brought me hundreds of dollars worth of required items, including bottles of Fireball, Cointreau, and Sauza, a $100 dildo and $300 worth of other sex toys because he’d chosen to buy the best, and several other little things I’d made him purchase just to torture and tease him the day we met – with only 24 hours notice of course.
This particular sub wasn’t the only paid client I had at the time, but he was certainly the most interesting. His budget and tastes allowed us to go further down the rabbit hole than most other clients had the stomach for. He paid for hotel rooms for me and my husband to have threesomes with sexy women; he paid my rent; he sang the alphabet when a couple we were about to swing with thought it would be funny to call him and give him a task.
We had an excellent several months together, but I struggled to find other good subs. I had sessions and several subs START service, but they always ended up flaking one way or another, and tracking down money was NOT making me feel like a sexy Goddess. Timewasters drove me crazy, and when circumstances changed for my favorite sub, I hung up my pro Domme hat.
The Awakening of the Goddess
In the time I took off from Domme’ing, the inner Goddess really awakened within me. I started ritualistic masturbation and sensual meditation – reaching deep to find the strength and power that I’d seen exercised by certain women throughout time. The longing for control – the desire for a group of men who serve me in every way – grew so strong, filling my otherwise normal life with strange considerations.
Finding Men to Serve Me
And then, somehow, I stumbled onto Niteflirt again. I’d set up a profile last year but never verified my phone number. When I logged in, I saw that someone had messaged me a couple months previous. I verified my phone number which took very little time, replied to the one message I had, and exited – all but forgetting the site.
Until a couple days later, the phone rang. I almost didn’t even answer it. An 800 number? Sounds like a scam to me. My husband told me he wanted to fuck with the scam caller (one of his favorite things to do) so I begrudgingly answered the phone. But it wasn’t a scammer on the other end of the line; it was that customer who had messaged me.
We spent the next 45 minutes discussing a unique fetish that actually really appealed to me. We talked like friends having a conversation – no masturbation, just a mutual exchange of sexually-charged and oftentimes quite mundane ideas. When he hung up, the automated voice told me that $45 had been credited to my account, and I decided that perhaps this Niteflirt thing was worth a second look.
At first, I just updated the text in my profile and created a couple of listings with very basic wordings. I set the price as $1.69/minute because that seemed to be lower than most of the girls on there and I want to work my way up to being a premium price per minute but want to discount things to get established. The calls and chats started to trickle in, and when I was waiting between calls, I learned the platform and updated my listings and profile.
Within a week, I had made a few hundred dollars and received a couple very positive reviews.
The last two weeks, I’ve been working hard to create more listings, improve my graphics and listing recordings/descriptions, build this website, and just generally improve my ability to be what you want and need in your calls.
I am LOVING it. You boys are nothing like the stupid Fetlife idiots I used to work with. You are actually submissive if you call the Domme lines and have all been respectful and grateful to pay for the role plays and experiences I really do work hard to provide.
I have had the pleasure of meeting some amazing men in the past few weeks – especially this week when your feedback started helping me rank higher and stay busier when I was available. I’ll be sharing glimpses of some of my favorite calls as well as shout-outs to my big spenders so check back. 🙂
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