Diary

Not Your Daddy: Feminine Power & Gender Dynamics

Not Your Daddy: Feminine Power & Gender Dynamics

One of my biggest pet peeves is when a sub calls me Daddy. Most subs don't understand why I find the term offensive, so let's talk about feminine power, gender dynamics, and how they relate to MY Domination. (Note, I said MY domination... this is not an indictment of...

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Big Changes Coming

I've been wanting to make this website interactive for a long time, and I've finally started the process. You may have noticed a couple new sex stories recently; well, there's a lot more where that came from. Read on to learn about my plans for www.ladycaptin.com and...

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So You Want To Be MINE: How and What It Means To Serve

One of my favorite inductions is "you are MINE." I understand that the vast majority of callers and subs seek to be owned, known, and controlled, and I enjoy providing this fantasy even for the callers who contribute irregularly and inconsistently to MY Queendom. But...

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How To Please Me

There are countless ways to please me, and the best subs do not need to be compelled to do so. They do it of their own accord because their best pleasure comes from pleasing me. Below, I will discuss some general rules of thumb for pleasing me as well as specifics...

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My Travels

Many of you have noticed that I spend a lot of time traveling. It's not just a series of vacations; this is my life. I am based in Michigan, but I travel throughout the midwest (and less frequently, beyond) for work and pleasure. I travel for work, consulting with...

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I Suppose I’m a Real Professional Now…

My Niteflirt profile says I've been around since early 2019, but I didn't even connect a phone number until August of 2020. October was my first serious month giving a life as a phone sex operator a go... and I am so glad that I did. It's been almost half a year since...

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Is Financial Domination Unethical?

I've had several big paypigs drop a lot of cash in the past few weeks, and it's gotten me thinking: is financial domination bad? Is it wrong for me to have men send me money when I know that they are addicted to their own ruin? Perhaps you'll disagree with me, but I...

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Traveling to Hibernate/Meditate in Sexual 420 Bliss

I live a strange life. I travel throughout the country with my husband. We stay in different places, eat good food, smoke the best weed, and have amazing sexual experiences with people. It's AMAZING. I won't lie... It certainly has its own unique challenges. Like your...

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This is the Best Job I’ve Ever Had…

I bill out $80 an hour in my vanilla work, and I actually really love the things I do. But COVID put a damper on my industry, and a chance login to Niteflirt led to a call that I'm guessing has literally changed my life. Even in my repressed years, I fantasized about...

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Phone Sex Stories, Shoutouts, & Leaderboard

I've met some really interesting people in the three weeks I've been on Niteflirt and started to establish some repeat customers. I have a foot boy who serves me almost religiously and a sapiosexual friend with a penchant for religiosity that appeals to the Ex-Mormon...

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Why I Decided To Become a Phone Sex Operator

I'm sure many of you are wondering why I'm doing what I'm doing. I'm educated, intellectual, and absolutely passionate about sex, erotica, role play, domination, and human connection. Where I Started Role Playing Years ago when I first went through a traumatic...

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